Hormonal health
Listening to pain: What eight women taught me about the state of women’s health in the UK

By Ruby Raut, founder & CEO, WUKA
It’s Ruby here, founder of WUKA and, like many of you, someone who’s been dismissed, doubted, and left waiting far too long when it comes to menstrual health.
Last week, I spoke at an event hosted by the Menstrual Health Project. It wasn’t just another panel or pitch session; it was a wake-up call.
The room was filled with GPs, pharmacists, educators, innovators, and women who have lived the daily reality of conditions like endometriosis, PCOS, PMDD, and premature ovarian insufficiency.
We weren’t there to celebrate solutions. We were there to listen. And what we heard broke us open.
The Stories Behind the Statistics
I walked out of that room with one page of notes — not data, not theory, but pain in ink.
The stories were raw and repetitive. Women told us of:
- 14 years of seeking help and getting none.
- 3 decades of living in pain.
- Being laughed at for wanting to come off contraception.
- Being told to “just go on the pill.”
- Waiting for a laparoscopy since 2015, and still waiting in 2025.
- Being asked to gain weight to get a period or lose weight to manage PCOS.
- Being offered pregnancy as a “solution.”
- Losing jobs because of endometriosis.
This is not an isolated list of frustrations. It’s a mirror reflecting the state of women’s health in the UK today.
Behind every statistic, there’s a woman who has rearranged her life around pain, missed promotions, cancelled plans, and lost trust in her own body.

The System Is Failing Us, and We Know It
Hearing these stories, I couldn’t help but think of it like a leaking roof.
You notice the drip, you report it, but you’re told it’s nothing serious, to just wait it out.
Days turn into months, months into years. By the time someone finally takes a proper look, the ceiling has collapsed.
That’s what living with an untreated women’s health condition feels like, small symptoms dismissed until they become impossible to ignore. That’s what our healthcare system is doing to women.
We don’t have a lack of data, we have a lack of listening.
When women describe pain, the system translates it into exaggeration. When they ask for options, they get the same recycled advice: “Go on the pill.”
The medical model still treats menstruation as a niche, not a vital sign.
And that’s why listening matters. Because until we treat lived experience as evidence, we’ll keep designing systems that ignore reality.
Learning from Lived Experience
As founders, practitioners, and advocates, we often talk about innovation, new tech, better diagnostics, smarter apps. But innovation without empathy is just noise.
Listening to eight women share their stories of endometriosis, PCOS, and PMDD reminded me of something fundamental: we can’t fix what we refuse to feel.
It takes courage to speak about periods, pain, infertility, and loss in a room full of professionals.
Yet these women did, not because they wanted sympathy, but because they wanted change.
Their words carried a collective message: “We don’t need to be fixed, we need to be heard.”
The Change We Need
So, what would change actually look like?
- Menstrual health education in medical schools.
Not as a module, but as a mainstream subject. Every GP, nurse, and specialist should understand menstrual health the way they understand blood pressure. - Inclusive menopause and menstrual support, for all ages, all bodies.
Menstrual and menopausal health should not be separate conversations. Hormonal health spans a lifetime. - Accessible care at every level.
Support should start at the local pharmacy, not five years into a diagnosis journey. Pharmacists and primary care teams can be the first line of empathy and intervention. - Private and public health insurance that covers menstrual conditions.
No woman should have to choose between financial stability and pain management. - Policy change that protects and respects women’s health.
We need national recognition that menstrual health is not a luxury — it’s a basic human right.
What Listening Really Means
Listening is not passive. It’s radical.
It means staying in the discomfort of someone else’s pain long enough to see the system that caused it. It means asking, not assuming. It means holding space before we offer solutions.
The Menstrual Health Project event reminded me that we can’t rely on numbers alone. Data gives us proof. Stories give us purpose. And when you combine both, that’s when transformation begins.

Why WUKA Cares
At WUKA, we started with period underwear, but what we’re really building is period equity.
Every conversation, campaign, and product we create is rooted in one belief: women deserve better.
Better care. Better education. Better respect.
Because menstrual health is not a side issue. It’s a social justice issue. It’s about the right to live without shame, without silence, and without suffering that’s dismissed as “normal.”
If you’re someone living with any of this, endometriosis, PCOS, PMDD, or anything that makes you feel unseen, I see you. You are not alone. You deserve better, and we will keep fighting for you.
Let’s listen louder. Let’s care deeper. Let’s make menstrual health mainstream.
With you always,
Ruby x
Founder & CEO, WUKA
P.S. Check out the incredible work of the Menstrual Health Project. They’re not just raising awareness, they’re rebuilding the narrative.
Hormonal health
Iron deficiency in women: The tiredness everyone normalises

Article produced in association with Spital Clinic
Feeling permanently tired has become so normal for so many women that most of us have stopped questioning it. But one of the most common reasons behind it is also one of the easiest to miss – and one of the most satisfying to fix.
The tiredness that gets explained away
There’s a particular kind of tired that a lot of women simply live with. The mid-afternoon slump that no amount of coffee touches. Needing an early night and still waking up flat. Putting it all down to work, kids, stress, age or hormones – anything except a cause you could actually do something about.
Often, though, that’s exactly what it is: a cause you could do something about. Low iron is one of the most common reasons women feel wiped out, and because it builds so gradually, it rarely announces itself. You don’t wake up one morning feeling different. You just slowly get used to running on less, until “exhausted” starts to feel like your baseline.
Why women are far more likely to run low
Iron is what your body uses to carry oxygen around in your blood. When levels fall, everything has to work a little harder to do the same job – which is why feeling tired is usually the very first thing you notice.
The reason this affects women so disproportionately is simple: periods. Every cycle carries a small iron cost, and over months and years that quietly adds up. Pregnancy adds to the demand too, when the body’s iron needs rise sharply.
But heavy periods are the big one – left unchecked, they can steadily drain your iron, which is why the NHS treats them as something worth looking into rather than just putting up with.
So if your periods sit on the heavier side, you’re not just dealing with the inconvenience in the moment – you may be slowly draining your iron stores at the same time, month after month.
The reassuring part is that heavy periods can be treated, so it’s worth having them looked at rather than soldiering on.
What low iron actually feels like
Tiredness is the headline, but it’s rarely the only clue. Low iron can show up as feeling breathless going up stairs you used to manage without thinking, a foggy, can’t-quite-focus feeling, looking paler than usual, or noticing your heart racing or thumping for no obvious reason.
Then there are the stranger signs people almost never connect to iron: brittle nails, more hair than usual collecting in the brush, restless legs at night, and – oddly – craving and crunching ice. On their own, each of these is easy to shrug off. Lined up together, they’re very often the same story.
Why it so often slips under the radar
Part of the problem is that none of these symptoms screams “iron.” They’re vague, they overlap with ordinary life, and they arrive slowly enough that you adjust without realising. Most of us are also remarkably good at minimising our own tiredness – we assume everyone feels like this, so there’s nothing to mention.
The result is that low iron can go unaddressed for years, not because it’s hard to find, but because nobody thinks to look. It’s a genuinely common, genuinely treatable issue that quietly chips away at how good you’re allowed to feel.
When “heavy” periods are actually heavy
Here’s the tricky bit: most women have no real benchmark for what counts as heavy, because the only period we ever experience is our own. A useful rule of thumb is needing to change a pad or tampon every hour or two, bleeding that lasts longer than seven days, or passing clots bigger than a 10p coin.
NICE frames it even more usefully: periods count as heavy if they’re getting in the way of your life – physically, emotionally or socially. You don’t have to measure anything. If you’re planning your week around your period, doubling up on protection, or it’s leaving you drained, that’s reason enough to take it seriously.
And the good part is they don’t have to be permanent. If yours have crept up over time, getting them under control is worth it in its own right – and it often tackles the iron problem at its source, rather than topping you up only to lose it again next month.
How you actually find out
You can’t tell your iron levels from how you feel. Plenty of women feel rough with results that look “borderline fine,” and some feel reasonably okay while their reserves are already running low.
The only way to know is a straightforward blood test that checks both your blood count and your ferritin – the marker that reflects how much iron you’ve actually got stored away.
Ferritin is the one that matters here, because it tends to drop first, before a standard anaemia test would flag anything as wrong. That’s exactly why a woman can be told her bloods are “normal” and still feel exhausted: the headline number looks acceptable, but the reserves sitting behind it have been running down for a while.
The good news: it’s very fixable
This is the part worth holding onto. Iron deficiency is one of the more rewarding things to put right. The NHS approach is usually a course of iron tablets over several months to rebuild your stores, paired with a source of vitamin C – even just a glass of orange juice – to help your body absorb them properly.
Alongside that, dealing with whatever’s causing the loss in the first place is what stops you ending up back at square one.
Most women start to notice the difference within a few weeks, often well before their levels are fully restored. The fog lifts, the stairs get easier, and the version of “normal” you’d quietly resigned yourself to turns out not to have been normal at all.
The takeaway
The exhaustion so many women treat as a fixed fact of life frequently isn’t one. Low iron is common, it’s quick to check, and it’s straightforward to put right – but only if someone actually looks for it.
If you’ve been tired for longer than you can remember, especially if your periods are heavy, it’s worth getting your iron checked rather than explaining it away for another year. Speaking to a GP is usually all it takes to get that started – and more often than not, the fix turns out to be far simpler than the months of tiredness would suggest.
Disclaimer: This article is produced for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Clinical guidance referenced reflects published NHS and NICE information as at May 2026. Individual circumstances vary; readers are advised to consult a qualified healthcare professional before acting on any information in this article. This piece was produced in association with Spital Clinic, which provided background clinical information for editorial purposes. Hyperlinks to external sources are included for reference only and do not represent an endorsement of any product, service or organisation.
Hormonal health
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Hormonal health
Wearables may help detect menstrual health changes earlier, study suggests

Wearable technology could revolutionise how women understand and manage their menstrual and hormonal health, according to a major new review that assessed dozens of studies involving data from millions of participants.
The review, which examined 40 studies with cohorts ranging from small pilot groups to nearly 19 million participants, found that devices such as the Oura Ring, Apple Watch, Fitbit, WHOOP band and Garmin watches are capable of detecting meaningful physiological changes across the menstrual cycle – and could one day help identify conditions far sooner than current methods allow.
The findings come as growing attention is being paid to the economic and personal toll of menstrual health problems.
Up to 90 per cent of women report cycle-related symptoms including pain, bloating and mood swings, while up to 40 per cent suffer from premenstrual syndrome.
A more severe condition, premenstrual dysphoric disorder, affects up to 8 per cent of women. In economic terms alone, menstrual and perimenopausal symptoms are estimated to cost the United States more than US$26 billion a year.
Researchers found that wearables were able to reproduce well-established hormonal patterns in real-world settings.
Skin temperature was found to be lower in the first half of the cycle before ovulation, and higher afterwards, consistent with known effects of progesterone.
Resting heart rate rose by around two to four beats per minute from the pre-ovulation phase to the days following it.
Heart rate variability, a marker of nervous system activity, was highest in the early cycle and lowest in the premenstrual phase, with lower readings linked to symptoms of PMS and PMDD.
The review also challenged some long-held assumptions.
Digital data suggested that ovulation tends to occur later and more variably than previously thought, with the pre-ovulation phase averaging 15 to 17 days rather than the 13 to 14 days typically cited.
Skin temperature was also found to dip most sharply more than five days before ovulation – not immediately before it – a finding the authors said could have practical implications for women using cycle tracking for contraception or conception.
Large datasets revealed that cycle patterns vary considerably between individuals and across a lifetime.
Nearly 20 per cent of women showed significant cycle-to-cycle variability, and both low and high body weight were linked to longer and less predictable cycles.
The data also pointed to racial differences in menstrual characteristics that had previously gone largely undetected in smaller laboratory studies.
On contraception, the review found that combined hormonal contraceptive users showed flatter, inverted heart rate variability patterns across the cycle, while progestin-only methods produced trends closer to natural cycles.
The authors cautioned that most research has been conducted in the United States and Europe, with predominantly white participants, and called for broader, more diverse studies.
They also flagged significant gaps in research on perimenopause, partly because many studies excluded women with irregular cycles.
Despite these limitations, researchers concluded that wearable devices hold genuine promise for helping women monitor their health and enabling earlier identification of conditions that might warrant medical attention – provided privacy safeguards and standardised research methods are put in place.
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